like i can’t even say that dean was in the wrong during the 15x03 debacle because, like. it feels like a long time to us, but in-universe, the time between mary dying and 15x03 is……..not very long. he’s grieving and mad at jack, but then jack dies, too, so he’s grieving jack but he never stopped being mad at jack, and he just. dean feels everything too much. so i get why he just! shuts down! it was a situation cas couldn’t be in anymore and he was right for that but it doesn’t mean that dean is the big bad, here. it just. sucked. for everyone. it was a total collapse of their relationship that had been building for some time.

i’d also just. i really need to see the original 15x03 script, because bobo said that the original scene was both longer and not about mary, so like. what was it. i think that would change everyone’s perceptions immensely.